I play on the iPad, so I guess there's a bit less precision in touchscreen finger presses than mouse click (maybe?).
Generally slower meter movement helps (ie. clubs with slower swing speeds AND balls that slow it down).
And definitely filling the bag with clubs with the same (or similar) swing speeds helps. (It would be great to have some slower meter wedges!)
Because the real thing is rhythm. Some days I have it, some I don't. I drag the meter back with my finger, then hover my finger near the ding line and go for it.
On a good day (I had one the other day) I was dinging damn near every stroke for 18 holes (I putted like an absolute hack and still shot an OK 61). 100% fairways hit. White bars on damn near every approach shot. It was great. I could have done it with my eyes closed.
Then on the off days, it doesn't seem to matter what I do, I'm launching 3 irons into lakes, and my iPad across the living room. Those are days to get the Consecutive Days XP bonus, and put the game away for the day. :-D