Paul, why are you always after my balls? I try to be nice, and everyone wants my balls. Watch the 6th day of Christmas and maybe you will get my balls, or something to play with own balls with. Back to the question, I have bought gifts for many members on here in 3 years. The female players I have gifted to are no doubt exactly what they say they are. I have one friend who I have gifted more than once and they have never asked once for a single thing. She is the real deal and a great friend for over 3 years. We enjoy a round of golf on occasions and are glad to have each other on WGT. IRL is another story all together, I traveled for over 30 years and spent many a happy hour at hotel bars. Did I always behave myself? Glad to say I did, it was kind of a being married thing. I saw no wrong in a little harmless conversation. If I got them a buzz going for the next guy, then good for the next guy. I saved him some money.