I feel for you Bill, been there myself and was banned from posting for awhile once before. Hell at the time I didn't even know I was until someone told me they couldn't see my posts. So I've learned when it was time to back off and shine it, in the long run it isn't worth letting them get to you.
Icon doesn't get everything right all of the time but hell do any of us. However when it has been needed he has helped me with situations with abusive members, especially one who kept wall bombing me with over 1,000 continuous nasty derogatory wall posts that were a PIA to get rid of. Then she kept creating new profiles and doing it again not only to me but others also. This person was as abusive as they come. Needless to say it finally was stopped with Icons help.
I know you are really upset now but is it really worth the grief it is causing you because trust me it isn't bothering them one iota. Life is too short to allow others to get to you because when they do it is really only you that gets hurt in the long run.