garypinhunter: You are still on my friends list, a simple message to me and we can talk. But to take it public not what I would call man up. Going public not a classy move.
In your opinion.
There may be others that are thinking of taking up an invite from you to join your club, and seeing this thread think again. This may be a good idea from his and their point of view and, as it illustrates the sort of players you do/don't want at your club, perhaps good for you too. Clearly he posted in the forum as he was unhappy with what you did and wanted to vent this publicly.
A brief summary of what happened as I see it. Three times you invited him to join your club and at the start of this month he accepted, he was already a legend. Three weeks later you chuck him out on the grounds that he only plays match play.
You may dispute this "If you read what Rigmu posted I never wrote ( saying theve got to let me go,i play too many match play games.)" but if I was him I would have read "Hi Rigmu, This is not fun but I am going to need to let you go from the club. As a training club I think you would be happier in a club that plays a lot of match play" in the same way.
My suggestion to you would be that you do a wee bit of research before you invite someone to join your club. At the start of October, when he joined you, he was a legend who hadn't played a stoke play round in 18 months, so what changed?
Rigmu after you open a thread you can right click on forums and open it again in a new window, that way you can go back and forward through the posts while answering in the first window.