TufferDuffer: Greetings gamers!
FTFY.
Golfers know the key principle of concessions in A/S and matches, from rule 2-4: It's at the respective player's sole discretion; the indecisiveness for the receiver is an integral part of the game!
And, don't put any hope in game modifications: Experience shows that those are very likely to create new flaws in the game. They are WGT, hope is futile!