Thankyou all for your interest and genuine encouragement. I had a debacle not long after posting this thread - we lost internet conection for three days! Oh the wailing and knashing of teeth!!!! I lost my 60 something conseq days bonus, saw a tour tournament had started, and couldn't respond on the forums - via the wifes ipad which was the only thing able to connect to the outside world.
But I'm back now, have totally blown an RG (three days off felt like 200 and I putted like it) and shot a score in the tournie to be 1 shot outside the cut.......the fun has begun again! :)