Just about any starter set will do. Most of these types of clubs are perimeter weighted, oversized, and easier to hit. You can't shape the ball well, but you can make good contact. At first contact is all you're worried about so these larger clubs can only help.
I've been playing for years and I kick myself in the butt for not getting lessons early on. Don't waste your time not getting lessons. Your enjoyment will be greatly improved as you progress faster.
Youtube is a great resource, but only after you get a few basics down. Someone can tell you about the press forward approach except you still can't make good contact so . . .
Good Luck