Re-read this morning, I didn't realize how harsh what I said sounded and apologize if that came off badly.
I play with quite a few folks who are elderly and when we do join a game's or have an "anyone" as fourth player- I see people complain about the time they take to hit shots and it just rubs me the wrong way.
Both from a respect for your elders standpoint and from a common sense one as well, Why would someone join a game with a set timer that they knew was there before joining and then complain about the time someone takes.
Im not talking about coin games where some players may do this on purpose, but even so its their 45 seconds and why do I care how they use it...lol
Just for the record- I too do the math in my head and play fairly quickly BUT tuff putts or caught between clubs, or mess up the math first time through can lead me to take 50-60 sec when I usually go 20-25 sec.