Thanks for all the input, I have done all the things you guys mentioned then went back through the optimizing thread in Community Help. Here is a step I omitted previously for some reason, but I did this and it helped immensely Reading is a wonderful thing, too bad i didn't read this entire article well. Following this step has done more for the meter than most anything else I have done, and for overall game quality too.
Flash Storage Settings
Make sure your browser allows flash content. Go to the Adobe Storage Setting Manager by clicking here . Move the slider so that you are allotting at least 100KB to storing flash objects. Check the "Allow third party Flash content" and "Store common Flash components" checkboxes.
Oh, BTW I did not buy the wireless mouse, thanks for the suggestion, I didn't get one that elaborate but did get a logitec and so far it seems like it will do the job well. The guy at Staples said that it would as long as I didn't play games that require all of the buttons. I did ask him if he had one that would read the swing meter! ;)