Your statement, "We should all want to look like Lee Westwood" - doesn't cut it with me. "We should all want..." what you want, is that what you're saying?
Here's the deal for me, if their was a mature, decent looking avatar I'd use it. It would be my choice to do so and it would be the same for others. Use it or don't. If someone doesn't like it they don't have to use it. Seems simple to me. I would simply like to have a different option. That's all.
Wood shafts: A number of years ago, 10 or 11 I believe, I had the chance to hit a few balls with a couple of wood-shaft clubs. A friend had a full set of antique wood-shafts complete with original bag and let me take a few swings on the driving range. Was pretty cool.