The 2:30 time, and disable the penalty for disconnects...
Purely speaking from one who plays with friends, and who know's nothing but a poor connection is occuring...I'd like to be able to finish the game with my friends, heck, even after 5 disconnects...no issues, we (the team) are invested into the game...so...give us the option to by[pass the 3 disconnect thing...
Let we who are playing decide...
And:
Give us all a "suggest to drop" like in MP...so if one of my buddies is having an issue staying online, let us the players decide the match, and if we'd like to contunue. drop it, etc.