Sorry to disagree Andy : )
To me meter speed is crucial to get more dings. The more dings & get in a round, the better the score. I wish the game was more difficult tho, I have always been saying that, but it gets easier & easier unfortunately.
I use the Taylor Made R1 driver, Callaway Big Bertha 3 wood and the cleveland wedges with meter speed at 3.5 but I got the R11 irons with 2.5 meter speed.
I certainly hit dings often with the 3.5 meter speed and sometimes NOT A SINGLE ding with the 2.5 meter speed in any 9 or 18 holes round. Ding is king.... in my game.
I play the R11 irons because I cannot play anything better with slower meter at level 96. I am positive I will never reach level 100 because I play less & less this game.
Eric