" I've seen it all too many times before happen to so many people. Is it too hard to lighten up with the sharp, and sometimes mean comments to others posts? "
Pootick...what I have seen "all too many times before" is someone making a public post about quitting, only to return later that day or the next...just like the OP did. People come and people go, honestly, no one cares..but if a person feels the need to grandstand via a public forum?...they're gonna receive a few comments.
Most of the responses are measured and appropriate. If an honest question is asked, numerous people provide good advice. If a guy has been on here for years, is still using starter equipment because he's too cheap or lazy to upgrade, then publically complains about the inconsistency of his shots? ..different issue entirely.
Save your sympathy for those who genuinely deserve it...there are many out there.