Systemcrash, not sure what official response you are going to get about VEM, but you hit the ball on the screws of the club, it seems to impact a randomness to the game, but you shouldn't see it anywhere close to ever hole. For me its usually a shot I expect to be no more than a yard or two off the stick, but it starts off going further to the left or right off the club, I can deal with it because as is in regular golf I have hit shots that I expect to be all over the stick and end up 30 ft away, it happens.
Too bad you dont play real golf, I think its a valuable tool in ones WGT belt, take it up some day, but this might be a good emulator for you learning golf one day. You will know the lingo, the rules to an extent, but you will have an idea of how to play the game.
As for the match plays, well you are always gonna get the quitters but in my opinion if you are looking for better players, sort them by Pro and better, I think you will get less quitters that way as well.
Keep practising, if you can spend a couple of bucks, do so, equipment really does help, especially off the tee. Get some more rounds under your belt drop your average, and start winning some tourneys or placing in them, especially the ready-go's and you wont have to worry about spending money on balls, and you wont lose them as much. I won 300 credits going from hack to master, I won the next 14K in ready-gos and match play challenges. I play 4 ready-gos a day pretty much and havent had to restock my credits in a while, but I drop a couple of bucks every now and then for WGT.