Until you leave a young wife, a 3 year old Daughter, and a new born son, you have no idea what these people are going through. I came home after 12 months, with a 4 year old daughter who wouldn't let go of her daddy's neck, and a 1 year old son who wouldn't let me hold him. He didn't know me, It took me a month before I could hold him. I spent 7 more years in the Military, he sure understands now, and knows who is Dad is. I was raised by a Marine Corp gunnery Sgt, and I damn sure knew what he went through. He is 84 now, still with me, and my Idol. Again, To all our troops, come home safe, you have stories to tell, and a life to live.