Good community spirit fellas. If you can't help the man out then why are you posting lame responses in his thread? :-/
As far as your problem goes Hotwir3 I'm not sure. I know that if you are Available to No One - In Tourney Mode you can't manually switch off of that. If you're on the website and you see that you most likely have a game in progress. You might need to restart and forfeit/continue the game to get it out of "In Tourney" mode. If you just X out the window it won't always change your status back to what it was before you started.