I agree with Dianne ... seems most likely answer.
However OP did say that he forfeited ... very strange.
I have often been offended by OP's language myself ... but it's still the best sex I'm getting at the moment so I let it go. LMAO
Also love your "real life" comment Lashe ... unfortunately the F-word just winds some people up. I know my boss goes ballistic every time i use it.
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