In another thread, I argued that typing during play can be more relaxing than actually talking during play (using Skype).
If Ms. SweetiePie finds typed chat sometimes too intrusive, it would be doubly so if using Skype.
The good thing about typed chat is that you can just ignore it.
In order to be able to play & type-chat effortlessly, it's of course also highly recommended to be able to touch-type (without looking at the keyboard), which is a skill that anyone can master within several months. The skill will then translate into lots of saved time throughout the rest of your computer-driven life.