Yes - Pain innit
Problem is IRL balls don't have how far you can hit them stamped on them and this sim tries to be as realistic as possible
The distance your clubs show are the average sort of distance with the standard ball - I think. The D balls hit around 10 yards longer or so but that also depends on the clubs you are playing and how high they hit to how far the balls roll
Just like real life you have to get out there and hit balls. Yes we badly need a driving range or something but we are assured that is coming, so for now just do a few practice rounds to get the feel
Mick