Surely Tess, you didn't let Kurt beat you or sommat???
Anyway, to answer your point, with your record in blitzs' (where you can probably score 100k+ with your eyes closed - I know, I've been on the receiving end of it! but not with the eyes closed I hope!), I'm surprised you get a game at all. Unless he's a sandbagger and thinks he can take you. Fool, I say to him!
I'm nowhere near the player you are, but, as Chris says, it's so difficult to get MPC's let alone anything else. I've tried getting into a skins game for credits a few times, but not once yet have I succeeded. And yes, I'm one of those players who hasn't accepted a game against Chris, because I'm not really a 59 average player, and I don't enter them to throw credits away.
That's the penalty for having a (false) low average. Or in your case, just being too damn good!