peoch: i say go for the comodo dragon browser
And if you do, this is what you do. Get the browser, set the home page to the game client, disable automatic Flash updates and then drag the CD icon into your Quick Launch bar. This way, regardless of what you or the wife is doing, when you click that icon you go directly to the game. None of the other browser stuff shows up-quick launch bar, etc.-and you're ready to go. Then you won't have to worry about what is going on now, like since the update.
Incidentally, the update didn't cause this ruckus, the perfect storm of the update crashing (no pun intended) head on into a Flash update did. Turns out the Flash update is a bit of a mess and causing the game woes.