I couldn't agree more. Due to the other players, most of the active players have bailed and I don't have time to weed out the dead wood. I'd offer to one of the other active players but they're all gone and with three kids, a full time job and an invalid mother in law who lives with me, I simply don't have the time. Want to change things, join up and go at it! If I had the time, I'd be doing all of the things you suggest and used to before my MIL"s stroke.
On the other hand, if there are 29 people interested in joining a country club and actively participating, let me know and I'll be happy to have you. I'll prune out the dead wood as I get the chance.