YankeeJim: An interesting crossroad
One which, after days of earning credits, researching equipment, and reading the forums, I think I have solved.
I'm going to buy the R11 Driver, R11 3 Wood, R11 Irons, 3 Callaway wedges (60, 75, 90 yard) and start tinkering with the Callaway balls for the slower meter.
The fact of the matter is that this really is the best set one can put together at this crossroads. It's also the most expensive. Nothing I put together would last longer though, and I couldn't see myself upgrading to anything else once I eventually did. Not only that, but the R11 set is still the best set at the highest level anyway, so it's not like learning the equipment and meter speeds now isn't a long term choice, too. On top of this, it will give me a full set with consistent meter speeds, and put to rest this quibbling back and forth about what to do about equip. I couldn't imagine myself needing anything else for months, and months.
Sure...I'm doing well with what I have now but I would be upgrading when I reach Tour Pro anyway and I think this set will help get me there faster than anything else. I'm also tired of having a buffet of different meter speeds.
The grand total for all of that, plus a sleeve of Callaways, is ~5,600 credits...in case anyone was wondering. A large bite, indeed but hopefully one I won't regret.