OilPays: Did I do something wrong?
Hi OilPays and welcome to the site...
Actually, you did do something wrong.. you expected a random multiplayer game to go the distance. Some do, most don't. People around here quit for many reasons, too many to list, but being that this is an internet game it's going to happen.
CSC is right when he says play with friends who won't quit. There is something else you can do, you can look at joining up with like-minded individuals at the Ladder site or GolfSeekers. These two groups are populated with people who don't allow quitting and you get to have a fun little competition while you're there.
Who knows, you might make a few hundred new friends in the process.
Good luck to you and again, welcome to the site.