When I want to join a multi, it's usually alt shot, it searches for maybe 10 seconds and then I have to "Search again". For alt shots, I might have to click that option maybe 5 times.
Since there is a 'Cancel' button, why not let the search go on until it finds a game within my parameters or I press cancel? Then I can do other things than stare at the screen when games are few. Bump the timeout up to a minute at least.