You need to practice. You are missing the fairway 44% of the time and GIR is only, 41.50%.
This would indicate to me that you are playing some wild shots, which might be your meter, or just not practising enough.
Your recovery shots are not good enough, your short game needs improving. Get rid of the hybrid and get another wedge. Have your wedges all evenly spaced out and preferably the same make, so the meter speed will be the same. This will help improve your average distance to the pin.
We all lose golf balls, you just just have to accept it's part of the game. The more you play the courses the more you will learn course management and where to place the ball.