Part of the answer lies in wedges and balls - both Starters in your bag. It's nothing to criticize but to respect.
From my memory, getting out of green bunkers was always tricky. First of all, ignore the caddie proposing chip or pitch. You should not use less than 60% power but it might be too much for the pin distance. IIRC I used LW, punch, full bs most of the time, happy to land anywhere on the green.
With decent custom clubs and any custom ball, there is a lot more of leeway.