denn13:“Virtual Equipment Model”.
Google this and read the article (if you can stay awake) as far as I could tell VEM does not make shots do WTF? they make the clubs harder or easier to use depending on how a player is doing.
If a player is doing well, the equipment "sweet spot" is adjusted to challenge the player and vice versa.
I notice this a lot with a putter. Start making your 8-10 footers and a few longer ones and all of a sudden, miss the ding by a wet hair and miss the putt. For longer clubs, well...we get the WTF? shots because distance is greater.
Typically I associate VEM with a mean greens keeper who cut the fairways and greens to make your day and with cars honking their horns as they see you teeing off as they drive by. Part of the game.
Learn to play before blaming other things. The clubs you use are used by a lot of good players so maybe this game is just not for you. Maybe try some wheelchair basketball instead. Good exercise for you.
Otherwise ask some questions, learn from others. If you don't want a real like golf game, play the other games that let you win even with being a bad player.