I couldn't agree with you more on this issue. The club distances are a joke and I am sick of needing driver 3 wood to reach a 400yd par 4. if I needed that when I play in the real world, I would play from the closer tees. They claim that the distances are designed for "average" golfers which I find hard to believe but even if it is true, when they bump us up from Hack to Amatuer, to Pro they should increase the club distances also. This is what happens in the real world as golfers get better.
As far as I am concerned, I am done playing this game until they get this problem fixed. The game has great potential, they just need to fix these things.