I kind of thought that might be the case, which is the reason i was trying to explain it. No need in buying gear that isn't going to suit your needs and just frustrated you. Guess I am not presenting it in a way that is easy for you to understand.
Clubs have Precision, Forgiveness, Feel, and Spin, along with trajectory.
Precision: The higher the number the more precise the club is, with 5 being the highest presently. Meaning if you hit the ding, wih a higher number, the closer, in theroy you will get to the hole, assuming you have takin into account wind and elevation correctly, as well as spin
Forgiveness: The higher the number the more forgiving. Meaning, if you miss the ding line excellent on your swing, the higher the forgiveness, the more likelihood of the ball still going where you intended it to go
Meter: The higher the number the slower the meter is. Nothing more needing to be said. I think based on your OP, this is the area of most importance to you, so you can hit the ding line and create the shots you intend
Spin: the higher the number the more spin the club puts on the ball. meaning the clubs have more stopping power. They give you the ability to hit the shot and get it to stop where you want it on the fly or maybe even back up. You have less roll and and a tad more control of where your shot ends up
Balls also have attributes. There is Distance, Spin, Feel, and Durability
Distance: The higher the number the more extra distance using that ball will give you
Spin: Like the clubs, the higher the number, the more spin the ball has, giving you more stopping power and more control over where your shots end up
Feel: Same as the clubs, higher the number the slower it will make the meter
Durability: How long each ball will last you, the higher the number the longer it lasts. With purchased balls, unlike the "rock" or starter, they have an limited life span, kind of like real golf. You only get so many hits with them. This number sort of determines how long each ball will last for you.