I am in the middle of a short move however I did want to respond to your offer of the reading of the Mars, Venus Book. I remember this book I think from a while back, it was a bestseller for quite some time. I took a quick peek at something about it and I saw that there is a point system of some type?
For doing something in different degrees of caring, surprise and other such deeds or categories, one is rewarded points? I wonder what the points can be used for? I am sure of what every male is thinking about what the points should be use for. Which brings me to wonder why such a system would exist at all. Now it is a tit for tat system that one will always feel as though he or she has done more than the other. This is not good relationship binding material but rather the, "I have to do system" I spoke of. It was a very small excerpt I read. I am sure it is much more intuitive.
Oh, and wait a moment please. I see you neatly cut my sentence into a quote about not understanding the female mindset, and left the male part out. I laughed about that, as it is a customary belief that men do not understand women at all.
I would like to redress that quoted sentence. I am going for big points here. ;-)).
Please, all in humorous good taste please, as I did laugh at that quite vigorously.
For all men out there that may have an interest in this, (pleasing women), it is all to easy to go to buy a piece of jewelry or nice bobble for your girl. However if you want to score some real points with your girl, buy her a blouse, slacks, summer dress, or anything in the clothing lines.
A man that can buy clothes for his girl is going to score huge points because it shows her a few things about you that she will adore a lot more than a ring or a bracelet or other bobble will ever show her. It will show her that 1- you know her size. How many men out there know the dress size of your girl? 2- How about the style she likes to wear? When is the season change times. Basically the golden rule of never wearing white after????????
3- Don't forget shoes. Don't ever buy her shoes for her, rather take her to the shoe store and ask what she may have an interest in say a size 4-5-6-7 those are the average woman's shoe sizes.
Pay attention to the style in each season she likes, and bring her to the style you think she likes. Now most of you guys out there, if you did this tomorrow with your girls, they would wonder what the heck happened to my man and how long can the new guy stay around?
I think that is enough of the redress of me not knowing a woman's mind set, in general of course. Would you agree Ms Williams. Do you think as a women you would rather receive gifts from your mate that you know, he knows more about you than you thought?
I know you did not cut the sentence to be insensitive, just human nature of the discussion points (topic) when entertaining the differences of the opposite sexes, That's all.
One last stab in the dark so to speak. I once witnessed a picture on your page of a woman with a suitcase or shopping basket in tow. I would take a guess, understanding that it was a very small photo that the woman in that photo is a size 5 - 6, this is from memory not being able to see it now and not having some other means of comparison to take a solid guess at the size of the woman in the picture.
If the women in the picture is taller than I remember, then I would venture a size 8 but no more.
I hope I have redeemed myself from the quoted sentence about not understanding the mindset of women AND men under certain circumstances.
Laughter is the best medicine. Please let me know if I am right. Just for giggles and to see if I still have the ability to size women up so to speak. It sounds awful I know. Just to see if I can still guess a woman's size. Sounds so much better.
If you have a husband or boyfriend I hope he is doing this for you, if not, reading this at least. :-))
Best regards to all.
Joe