i did 1 post about game troubles, 1st page of this topic
... deleting file >settings.sol< , "macromedia" folder (going down to the folder "sys")
game is better now, not perfect, but playable
no flash update or anything else, i delete that file every day
i still dont know where is real source of the troubles, but this works to me now
thanks to all, it is glad to see when someone tries to help us