BarmyArmy147: out of 12 par 4 only 7 i can reach in regualation and the other 5 most of them im hitting a wood or hybrid into the green with no chance of stopping the ball on the green
So try laying up to the end of the fairway on those holes and seeing if you can get up and down with a wedge and a putter. That will pay off now and later.
Do your best with the starter equipment before shelling out for the full gear, but don't feel as if you have to compare yourself with the players who have spent that money. Set an intermediate target, like even par. Then when you have conquered the basics, go for the good equipment (like the Raptures) and your game will truly take off.
There are rewards all along the way.