Well said, and thank you.
Maybe for some there is a negative intent, but that does not mean that all should be generalized.
I think the icon idea is a perfect way to change this.
I know for myself, I believe in the players right to choose. For me if the owner got all upset due to MY pages content, I would take it as an insult as far as my ability to make a decision that's right for ME.
I have never had some sort of negative intent, and do not feel as such.
I had a player that told me "Thank you for the offer, but I am happy right now with the club I am in"
My reply was "Well I am glad you have a club you enjoy, and I hope it remains that way. I'd still like to play some golf if we get a chance." We did, and now are great friends.
I have seen posts on members pages, and see it as none of my business.
That's my opinion to which we all are entitled.
Thanks for your time.