2Broke, I understand your issue is disturbing. But in some cases the game may be timing out. Lately as in the last two weeks, there seems to be a major problem with loading multi games at all. I played in a 3 some last night and it took four times for us all to finally show up. I am sure you at times have someone short witted enough to cancel, but it may at times be on WGT's end as well. Good luck in the future, and enjoy as much as you can!