Dearest narshole,
Well, eliminate one of those possibilities, don't play at work. There's disconnects and such but YOU mention if your getting snot beat out of you, you quit.
There;s no clear way of knowing what happens, but I have found the class players post on the opponents wall in a gesture of good faith and sportsmanship. Might they be lying? Perhaps......but your comment "Get over it" ...shows your teletubby viewing mentality.
Oh, meant in the kindest, non crayola way possible.