To be honest, I have never played on android - I use a Note 4 and for me, the screen size has no appeal for me.
Therefore the settings may be different and perhaps a android user could chime in. The menus may be completely different.
On the PC platform, if the stroke round or match play is in practice mode, the segment at the bottom can be changed - any player joining will play from the "set" conditions. However in a ranked stroke round or scored MP, this will be set to default tees (your tees).
As you seem to be playing for money or coins, my advice is play against peers only....even then there are a lot of sharks....so beware.
If it is practice with nothing at stake, higher tiers will give tips and advice, so it can be worth it.
As for additional XP's this will not happen.....and I am assuming you mean XP's that help you increase level, not coins or credits.