renniw52: I remember the little things in life that guided me.
Rich, I had to go back to this post (and the following post by you) as it hit several chords.
Who knows, in the years that follow this young boy, he might get to a crossroad in his life and think back to the time when a total stranger was kind to him....and it might be a turning point. Wishful thinking maybe, but at some stage we all make decisions based on what we have learned....
renniw52: I just feel so sorry for that little boy.
And we are all part of our upbringing - this little kid is probably doomed, but not always. Some great people have come from poor upbringings - I have know a few pilots who were mistreated as a kid, but managed to right themselves before it was too late - in a couple of instances it was the Air Force that was that turning point.
They learned discipline from the forces, but sometimes can be something simple as an act of kindness.
Not long ago I met someone from my schooldays, I did not really know him, but he was a trouble maker at school and I think he got expelled.He was in school in Sydney and I heard he went back to WA.
It was a chance meeting and to be honest, could not really remember him well, but he was one I assumed would have been supported by the government in one form or another - either via prison or the dole or a mix.......
After school he was given a chance.....an apprenticeship as a builder. He now is pretty successful and said it was the early starts and discipline that got instilled in him. Apparently his family disowned him as a 16 yo - and got in trouble with the law. The judge said get a job in a month or you will go to a youth detention facility (Hillston Boys Farm). He got a job!
I think there are times when a young man (or girl) have choices and as parents we hope that we have given them the grounding to make a good choice.
For those who need guidance, as a society we can only help those who need guiding, but those young people will make their own choice. Hopefully these small things aid them in doing so.