Joy: Perhaps you could give a bit more information. I see that you have been a member of 2 clubs since the first of the year. One looked like it had a lot of members who had not played in a years time and had not been culled from the rolls. The other that you were in longer seemed to have more active members but still many who had not played in some time. What was it about these clubs that didn't fill your needs? Clubs should be about more than a free putter pal or your giving the club daily points. Did the clubs have a forum or their own website? Were you put on friends lists? Did the owner "interview you" or ask you why you wanted to join? Without some of this information it is hard to know what kind of a fit might exist between you and some club? Having only 3 friends does send up a flag about your desires.
And it appears that none of what I have written is important if the owner of your old club takes you back as you have asked.