If you would ever like to learn how to play, I would be glad to help. There are others that could give you much better help than I could with the actual playing, but I think I could help you with your attitude, which is really what is killing your game. Once you learn how to play, the vast majority of those unexplained shots will suddenly go away. If complaining rather than playing is part of what makes it fun for you though, then you are already on the right track.
Cheers, Brett