The player who disconnects doesn't bother me. I win, I get my coins and I get my apparel box.
What does bother me is the player who has the capacity to instigate the "paused for reconnect" that doesn't trigger the countdown timer. This has to be a cheat. It as been happening for over 3 years and if it were a glitch, WGT would have addressed it. However, if it's a cheat, WGT won't acknowledge it.
I've just lost 50,000 coins in the Shanghai room when leading by 2shots after 3 holes. I've reported it to customer service, but I'm wondering wether there should be a "name and shame"