I know that it's a tough transition, but you are trying to ding every shot into the middle of the fairway or onto the green, I'm sorry to tell you that those days are numbered. As you level up, your meter will get faster and your forgiveness will drop off a cliff, but you will gain much needed precision and distance.
Being a solid player on this site isn't about hitting the perfect shot every time; it's about knowing which shot to use in "off" lies in order to get yourself out of trouble.