DodgyPutter: but that really wasn't fair.
Alan I appreciate you commenting, I respect your willingness to dialogue in DM as we have done in the past. I have learned from you as well. But trying to suggest this whole discussion is about VEM, when I don't believe it is.
It may or could be one very small part, but that was not my primary focus. I sought to support the observations of someone I know whose experiences do reflect some of my own observations. I can't say exactly because we may still view some things differently, but he definitely didn't deserve the indifference or belittling comments that were directed at him as though he hasn't learned anything from his own experience playing WGT.
I suspect the reason you assumed VEM was the only point being brought up is because some of our own discussions were centered on that topic, so maybe you felt that is the only facet I was bringing up.
I felt the comment you quoted was actually rather restrained, but suggesting my comment is not fair while failing to point out neither are his comments fair in that he tends to demean or belittle others... if you are going to suggest someone is not fair then be fair in calling the other person out as well.
I was not happy when I saw others calling him a troll, I felt that was a bit far but I hadn't time to respond then. I could have used that word but I didn't. He simply comes across far more obstinate and less willing to dialogue. I would not say the same about you... even though we disagree on some things we have still discussed various topics and I can still respect you for that.
I also felt Tony was attempting to dialogue as well, which is why I addressed him.
I haven't and don't get that from Mantiao ... that is the difference for me. but I reference the old thread, because that was reflective of my experience with him, not necessarily because VEM was the only topic of concern. It was just the topic I had encountered his obstinance in discussing a topic.
The reality is … I believe we can all view this game differently and find what works for each of us. I don't try to set out to demean or belittle others suggesting they are rubbish or illogical.
You want to talk or chat, you know you can message me. But I am growing increasingly weary of the forums and the combative nature some bring to them. I have tried to contribute and give back because I learned so much reading them, especially in my first year on WGT... but it can get frustrating at times too.
The one thing I can say... it has probably saved me a butt load of credits on balls because if I hadn't been researching or reading or trying to contribute in the forums, I would have likely been playing. LOL
Good luck all... I am taking a break.