I wouldn't be overly concerned about dinging. In my experience, if you hit the ding and you have a crosswind, it's almost as bad as missing the ding on the leeward side, the wind will just run away with your shot. Click on the windward side of the ding if you have a crosswind and the sideways movement of your shot will be noticeably less.
As you say, the new game has a faster meter and it's much easier to miss the ding, so miss it on the correct side and save yourself a lot of heartache.