You solved this by creating an own CC - not the best choice if you want support.
Anyway:
RichieF47: there is Nothing in this Dead Beat Country Club, No tips, No Nothing..no one is Ever on..how i got accepted in the first place seems to be a Mystery.
There is a set-up in the owner's tools to automatically accept new members. This may hide the fact that the owner hasn't played since 2018 and only four members have been playing in 2020 - none in April though. This CC may be regarded dead.
RichieF47: i am Hesitant at leaving my current Dead Beat Country Club.
There's not much to hinder you - joining and leaving a CC is unrestricted and free.
RichieF47: i desserve to be in a Club that is active and has daily ,active, Nice & Friendly players aswel.
True!
Interested in a CC, this may be checked by looking at the "Date last played" information in the CC's members list. Especially, look for an active owner. Has he been playing lately? I'd advise to get in contact with an owner or a director before joining just to see if he's active and friendly and responsive to any questions you may have. He might even tell you why he wants or wants not to see you as a member.