"First this is not hitting the ball to hard. How can the green show a break ( balls are moving, they really are moving not just seeing things ) and the ball does not break."
I think you are answering you're own question - if you hit the ball to hard you will take out the break, this is often done on short hard breaking putts for that very reason. The question is how far past the hole did you end up?
Have a good read of Putting tips, distance control in the game tips section.
And as stated practice, play and practice some more. You may also take notes of youre putts and results for future reference.