True it would be safer playing with friends, however some of the most enjoyment i have had is by going on a meet the peeps tour of WGT
Having a round and a few laughs along the way granted not all like to prattle on during a game but i quite enjoy a relaxed game and a laugh until the dreaded gone!!!,
So to play with friends you need to make them via playing and socializing hence its unavoidable you will come across it
just seems logical if you see they had no stars your already aware of there character and could avoid the game. Now all of us know how unreliable some connections can be but a simple grading of say
5 quits loose 1 star, 3 more loose another, 1 more loose the last. redeemable after x amount of continual plays just a suggestion is all im saying :)