PeterSecond: I spent the last 40 minutes trying to figure out how to E-mail someone directly (not in a forum). I didn't find any button or link. Where is the link... if there is such a link!? Thanks!
Another work-around....
Simply type your message on their wall and immediately delete it... they get the message in the email that they registered under and whatever you write stays private.
If you wish, you could include your email address in your message and offer to exchange, therefore opening a line of communication.
Just a thought.
Have a nice day.