Looking at wedges, first get an idea of what clubs you would like to upgrade too then work your way back so you will have evenly spaced clubs.
Most players get rid of the hybrid, as an iron is just as good for rescue. Also remember the punch option with all clubs - its a great way of getting closer when "in-between clubs" and getting out of a bad lie after a wayward drive
I haven't used the spider putter but Andrew is a good player so it cant be bad. New putters do take time to adjust to, so persist in whatever you opt for. I personally used the Ghost form about level 40 to level 85.
As for chipping read the chipping guide under the FAQ. Also I use all types of shots around the green. Basically as a rule of thumb, I never use "chip" if more than 2 yards from the green, less if it is one of the US Open courses. Pitch and flop are better option, punch if it is a really bad lie. Experience helps a lot!
Players usually will help in the forums - it is a community! if you need any help just ask - even hit me up for a game, I am always happy to play with someone who wants to learn.