Yes it helps a great deal, I will happily remain as I am, playing what I enjoy playing, with people who dont take it too seriously, & play for fun. If I want to play with long faces & bad tempers I will go to my golf club, where weekend competitions seem to consider this sort of behaviour as mandatory. So next time I am quizzed as to why my level is 81, yet I am still an amateur, I can tell the person concerned to mind their own ******* business?